Sometimes when you have a chronic illness, you feel like you aren't enough. Some of us have to have a caregiver, others our spouses help ton out, some of us can't even get out of bed in the morning or do what we wish to accomplish. At times, we feel like a burden to society rather than a normal human being. We feel like we take more than we should.
That's the thing, we are telling ourselves this. Most of the time, our family or those around us understand and help because they care OR if you have a caregiver, they are paid to help you-- so don't beat yourself up over it. I know that is easier said than done and that it can be hard when you've gone from independent to needing more help but THAT'S OK. You are still human, you are still worth it and you deserve to be treated as such.
We are own worse enemies. Half the time, we are the ones who treat ourselves as inhuman. We are the ones who think bad about ourselves. WE NEED TO STOP THIS THINKING. We need to realize that just because we need extra help or have a hard time doing things, that doesn't mean we're anything less than what we were before. We must push ourselves to see the beauty in things before the bad, beauty in ourselves. We need to see what we can do and grow on that than focusing on the things we can't do.
We are beautiful majestic human beings and we deserve to see ourselves in that light. You deserve it. You are beautiful, unique and awesome. You deserve so much in this world-- allow it to happen.
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